*"Thank You 25yearsmlc for 10,000 posts" Thread*

[25yearsmlc]

I can't say that I really blushed when I read your note. I teared up. Thank you.

I recall in my darkest times, wondering if other people's marital ;problems hurt as much as mine, and quickly realized they did.

And there must be a LOT of walking wounded in our midst. Which is amazing and sad. Amazing b/c somehow the world keeps turning despite our broken hearts.

But I have seen more growth in you, borne of courageous hard work, than in most. So to me, you are a success story of divorce busting, even though the marriage has not yet been saved.

I'd say YOU have been saved, and it was an honor of to be a part of that.

What I "know" about you is that there exists many women who'd be glad to be in your life. When you are ready, you'll let one in. I don't know if it'll be your ex w, but you won't be alone forever. You're too loving and too worthy of love for women not to notice. (Heck, you're one popular guy around here!)

Hope we meet in person some day, and I hope you have lots of kids in your life someday, along with your beautiful son. You're too good a man to waste your life with a sense of "want and lacking".

You deserve more. You'll get more...in time and when you are ready.
((( )))