Agreed, LA. I've reached out to a few lawyers to consult with and figure out which one I'd like to retain.
I'm going to go through with a separation agreement - both to protect myself, and to show her I'm moving on without her. It's really the last card I have to play.
I've also gone through the house and took down all the wedding photos (and any others of us together). I'm sick of the reminders right now.
-Pluto
H: 29 W: 27 No Kids
Together: 12/04 (9 years) Living: 02/09 (5 years) Married: 06/13 (11 months) ILYBNILWY: 01/14 Separate Bedrooms: 01/14 Discovered Affair: 02/14 (On-going) W Moved Out: 06/14