So, I feel a lot better now. She moved back into our apt and ripped up some of our wedding pictures. I'm not surprised. I'm not the maid who cleans up everything and still has to continue receiving nasty letters and a no intimacy M. After looking back thru DR I have discovered many of the problems that have led to where I am now and if the D does go thru I feel confident to create a new, better M in the future.
She has blamed her brother for taking sides and said he is not family. Sadly this is not new. I'm LRT and reinventing myself and its up to her to miss me and want this. I'm keeping expectations at zero, like what the rules say. This is the new me and only getting stronger.
"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith