Then that's a good reason to see an atty.

If you took all the stuff you've accumulated, minus vehicles, what would you get for it if you tried to sell it? Think about whether it's worth paying an atty to divide up.

Good luck.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss