Originally Posted By: Ggrass
Mines said nothing but no since I asked him to end it and choose me.

In fact he seems to project your making me the victim, each time he refuses. That was when I went completely dark and he's not even the least bit intrigued. No initiating at all. Unless its for work and strictly business a paying job.


I can only imagine how hard/depressing that must be. H doesn't show any interest in wanting to be a part of my life, just the kids. I think he does things like take out the garbage/cut the grass out/ask me how I am feeling out of guilt because I am pregnant.

He shows no signs of ending things or even any "cracks" in relationship with OW. And definitely hasn't shown any signs of wanting to return to the marriage, even though the 2 things he said were wrong with our marriage I have done 180's (and he even said I changed)


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction