New therapist and moving on......

[twinmom]

Your right, I don't ask for help. If I ask H for something he does it, but I guess I am fearful of looking needy/not projecting the "I will be fine without you"
I have had to call him once to come help me get up (couldn't move and had to pee so badly!) But most of the time I just wait it out.

I don't think H has ever told me no when I have asked him to do something except when I asked him to end relationship with OW and work on our marriage. LOL, he is EXTREMELY EXTREMELY conflict avoident in a relationship so I worry he says yes but is resentful that I asked.

Maybe I will get the courage in the next few weeks to send him an email about being there when Lilly is born.