Thanks LiveNow I got an email from exH today thanking me for all the hard work I did when he needed an insurance certificate Monday, it was just me calling my benefits dept and someone there had dropped the ball and the health insurance showed him as still active so he couldn't get his own insurance. Anyway he thanked me Monday do for him to email me on a Saturday to thank me again and to be so nice about it was strange to me. He must not be ready to cut the cord after all this. I responded "you're welcome" to keep it short and sweet.I have not contacted him first in a few months. Oh well, he knows where I am. I'm starting to have fun now, I feel like I'm really on the brink of "freedom" or acceptance. I still think about it but not nearly as much as I did, it's been nice hanging out with friends and family now and I'm definitely feeling happier more of the time than before. Coming out of that last phase of grief. Of course it only takes one email or text to suck me back into wondering and thinking about him. Not going to let it ruin my day though! have a good weekend everyone!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
