Try to remember that the M didn't get to the point it did overnight and it isn't going to change back that way, either.
You have to consider that your marriage, as you knew it, is dead. What you are doing now is laying the foundation for a new and better version.
Frustration is a normal feeling. Trust me on that...
I would have to be encouraged that your W is feeling what she is feeling right now. She is owning her behavior which is big. I know many peoples who's spouses do not. She is acknowledging your changes which is just awesome.
Keep on your path.
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter
