2nd time around part 2

[NotAgainPlease]

Thanks Job. I agree I need to put the responsibility on the kids. They are both 14 so they should be able to do it. I just have to leave it up to them and let go. It's the blind leading the blind but they have to learn sometime.
as far as the photo I sent them right after I took them.

I am going to be working on letting go of keeping H informed by me. This will be hard for me I can see. Its a hard habit to brrak and then when he contacts I fall for it...I'll be setting that as my goal. H needs to know I won't keep him informed any longer. That's the old me he chose to give up.