Thx nit84. Same here. No roadblocks (although not W opinion LOL). I also told my WAW that I didn't want D! With my history of bad choices, I doubt she'll change her mind even if I'm what she's looking over the fence for, but as Mach1 said either on my thread or one I read, no spouse is perfect, both contribute to the marriage issues until they both decide to grow together, and what matters is from today forward (not word for word).

My pastor made a comment at bible study that really hit home..."God already knows your sins, your spouses sins, and any future sins that either will make so why hide from yourself". Holy moly....down came the flood gates of tears.


W-37
Me-37
M-16yrs & 5days
W "Done" Day = Valentine Day 2014
D-8/13/2014
S16
S13
S11
D8