Hoping to find my way

[KdogGS]

Those are great goals! Meetup.com was my saving grace, try some different groups and you'll find one you fit in with.

Now aside from that work on your 180's, what are the things you did wrong or want to change and what would a 180 be.

Example- I was controlling before by restricting w's discretionary purchases as money manager. 180- don't be controlling, figure out what 50% of joint bills are and let her decide what to do with the rest of her money. That's one example, what are your 180 areas?

I thought one of your goals was being a better father? What's an actionable step there? For example, have Father/daughter night on X night each week with quality time doing something she enjoys?