So I've been trying to just ride this out, working on being the best me, and trying to GAL, and I think I'm doing very well. Detachment is at the point where I don't need or require her to be at the house or around in any way. Musing really, I do better when she isn't here.
We've had zero conflicts this week, no boundary violations, but also no change. Although, I guess no conflicts is a positive change. However, what I am realizing is either way, I'm not so sure I want to be with my WAW. Most likely, that is because of the circumstances, but the longer her R goes with the OM, the further away any chance or a R goes for me. I have seen a few signs that she is thinking about things a bit. But really, not enough.
I think I may need to change tact a bit and maybe change some of the behaviours I have been doing. It's important to re-evaluate all the time, and I don't want to get stuck in the same patterns as before.
Anyone have any suggestions on some things I should change or do more of. Less contact works because I feel better. I'm worried about my kids as well. They all are having different issues related to the current separation which I think need to be professionally addressed
