New therapist and moving on......

[twinmom]

Owl777, thank you. I used a DB coach in the beginning and didn't get very far. It was actually a huge waste of $$ because as long as H is in fairy tale land with OW it doesn't matter how great I am.

I am an only child and no my mom is really not a part of my life. I have a great group of friends but they have their husbands/kids/jobs too.

I honestly don't even know how I feel about H right now. I do know that I want this relationship with OW to fall apart even if we don't eventually work things out. Unfortunately that's the only thing I am completely sure of right now.


Anyone have any advice for what to say when H asks me "what's wrong?" When I sound sad/quiet on the phone...... I want to reach through the phone and do the V-8 smack to his head and say wtf do you think is wrong you a$&

Last week or so he asked in a text and I told him to stop asking me what was wrong like he actually gave a fu$@ about me, to which he replied "sorry" but he asked again yesterday on the phone. It drives me CRAZY!