Kdog, I know that you have struggled with alcohol before and I appreciate your inside view to the disease.
It's almost like WAW is self-sabotaging right now. Like she needs to come up with reasons to justify ending our relationship. She has been talking a lot recently (last 4-5 months) about feeling intense anger at her disease. She also mentioned feeling "trapped in her own mind". Horrific stuff.
I'm not trying to minimize our problems in the relationship, we had plenty of issues. But this seems deeper than just relationship issues as Mach suggested.
SHe's not working her program, hasn't attended an AA meeting in 7 months or been in therapy.
What is she doing Kdog? Is she setting herself up for a relapse by removing the positive influences in her life? I quit drinking when she did and I'm not an alcoholic so its not an issue for me. But the reasons she gave me for ending the R seemed to be a little bit of a reach (bringing up arguments from 2 years ago etc.) My gut tells me she needs distance from me so she can find a nice, quiet place to enjoy a glass of wine without having to hide it or explain herself to anyone.
