Wife walking away

[LBSinTX]

My plan is to work on myself. We're trying to sell the house right now and she's trying to find an apartment as quickly as she can. I'm not supporting her. My plan is to work on myself. If she had anywhere else to go she wouldn't be in the house. She loathes the house. It's in disrepair and she's always listed it as one of the biggest reasons for her unhappiness. This has all happened in the span of 8 days. I'm reeling but I'm largely detached. I only text her about the kids or business. I don't tell her I love her and I am getting a life. I'm reconnecting with old friends and living my life. I don't feel that there will be any way to improve things until she is out of the house and truly on her own. I'm working out and working on my issues and being patient. I see her daily because I get the kids off the bus after work and stay with them till she gets home. Her mood is up and down. Initially things were fairly friendly but the past couple of days she's gone pretty cold. I didn't say hi yesterday when she showed up and that seemed to bother her. Should I. Trying to stay dark when possible. What else should I be doing? Perhaps I'm just being hopeful but I think things will work out after some distance and when things play out with OM. He doesn't really seem her type. Any advice is appreciated.