Hope thnx for the reply...yes i read the books...including that book by that hommer guy...stop your divorce. Right now since im not at home and i see her only 2x a week when i take my kids im implementing the last resort....I dont say much...am always in a good mood and joking around with the kids...and when she talks about the divorce i listen and not argue with her...by the way..i immediatly saw my faults...im working full time and am getting my own appartment and taking good care of my kids...love them sooo much...im surfing alot and doing my own thing...the last time we argued wich was monday..she kept saying that i will never change and everything is my fault and how she hopes one day to see me diffrently...her family tells me they think she is exagerating her anger...but either way she is going with this divorce...she told her sister she doesnt want the preasure of having to get back with me hanging over her head and feels everything im doing is to try and get her back....she is also now going through and posting a [censored] load of photos from her teenage years...oh and yesterday she took down one of our wedding pictures...but left all the others up????


Me: 42
W: 39
D: 2 age 6 and 9
D-Day: Dec 29 13
Seperated: 3/20/14
Mediation retainer : 5/20/14
She filed: 06/25/14