Maybe this is a relationship better left in the past, and now that I'm a grownup, I need a grownup relationship, as well.
Ummmm.....yeah.....I'm thinking that's what most of us have been trying to tell you.
All this standing-for-the-MLCer business - that's for a long-standing marriage, usually with kids involved, where there's a huge investment and the kids' well-being to consider. In your case, it's the opposite - for the sake of your future unborn children, you should NOT settle for your ex.
Plus, you know - you're young, talented, capable, adventurous - get out a live a little more before you settle down. Don't be in a rush. Choose wisely.
THIS^^^^^^!!!!! OMG PLEASE LISTEN TO ALL OF US...(AND I MEAN, ALL...)
yes I used all caps in red, b/c I AM YELLING it to you....for your sake and any future children. FLEE THIS RELATIONSHIP!...good grief, what will it take for you to see how much of a favor he's done you?
(Answer: TIME.)
But I also know that where the head goes, the heart will follow...if we let it.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016