It's when you are no longer willing to put your life on hold while you are "waiting" for your partner to "recover" from their MLC, depression, an on-going affair, their lack of love for you, or whatever. You realize that you are in charge of your own life, that YOU are responsible for YOU, and you don't have to sit around in limbo until THEY change. You totally quit playing the "blame game". It's when you realize that you are not a "victim" to what life deals to you.
Okay bonehead....talk to me about this....
How does any of this relate to how you are feeling now ???
JamesJohn was a moderator here for quite a few years, and I have always found his words soothing, and full of knowledge..
He was the best....
How does any of that relate to what you have been reading from the Vets here ???
How would your goals that you have been thinking about, play into this ???
