Let It Go

[BklynMom]

I was so happy when I read these posts yesterday at the playground. It makes me feel so loved and just knowing I have this awesome support system makes problems not seem so daunting.

So I took Georgia's advice and emailed him, sleeping bags?? He replied yes and then emailed through out the day yesterday and this morning more things to pack. I packed them up this morning and it made me feel so much better just to know that I am sending stuff with them. Its like a little part of me is going.

They are my babies. I am the mama.

Regarding the OW, I am gonna give it some more time until I bring it up again. Like if he gives me a date that they are moving in together I will suggest she come with him for a pick up/drop off.

I have accepted that she will be part of their lives and in some ways my life. It doesnt have to be a big to-do but she needs to meet me face to face.

Yes gabby I am sure my xh doesnt want us to meet cause he is trying to control the sitch and doesn't want OW to feel bad in anyway. I already know from mutual friends that OW & exH see OW as a victim in all this because she is just doing this for love and she had nothing to do with breaking up a family... why would anyone judge her for that?