Ah. You're not alone about the DBing not being a success story for the M. However, it's a success for the one DBing. We'll use these skills in our lives and in other R. There is one thing I do want to point out when you commented about the xW WAW in 3yr. R and not looking back. At some time, after several Rs doing the same thing and not working, she may wake up. Often it's too late for the xS, but it does happen often, as I've read in these situations. Yes, I'll probably be one like you. Take care.