Yes, now that we are not in a relationship, I must let him have/own all his feelings and deal with them on his own. He cannot "have" this part of me too (otherwise, why bother EVER getting back together, if I give it all away).
Im not sure which way the cookie offer happened... I think I first mentioned that I was hungry (I usually am on Tuesday's at that time, as I am on my way to women's meeting and don't get time between work & driving). I noticed immediately.
Either way, we both handled it wrong.
Please point out the passive-aggressive behaviour? I am still learning about this.
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Adding to my confusing thoughts... he admitted that he recognized that I am irreplaceable.... if this is the case, what is he doing then?
Knowing that I am "irreplaceable"...then he is a bigger fool for letting me go. If this is the TRUTH, then I have nothing to worry about... it will eventually sort itself out...right?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
