Next time she wants to "talk" tell her "not now, I'm about to leave to go somewhere, and don't really have time to discuss this with you at present. Have a great day/afternoon/evening/night!"
Who says it's not a good time to go on a walk? You need to detach before these conversations won't kick you in the guy every time you have them, and to give her some space to figure things out. You also need to go at the least dim. Make her wonder what you are doing. Act as if. Start moving on with your life. She's going to see that, and she's going to have to make some tough decisions in her life based on your actions and her actions. In effect, you are forcing her to walk the path she's on. She's not getting you as a backup plan. You are going to leave her in the dust if she continues on her path as you rekindle the person you are inside.
That's my take on it anyhow
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
