WH, He is still looking to you to be his problem solver. He's going to have a very tough time growing up and learning to make decisions on his own.
The consequences of his actions are starting to become a reality. Poor fool. He had it made, i.e., a good wife, family and a home. Now he's struggling to make ends meet and still feels the need to contact you to have you resolve his problems.
No, you can't do anything for him, nor can you fix him...but you can enjoy your holiday weekend w/o the stressors he tends to create.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
