His not so nice side (real him? I don't know) is coming out in full force.
H: I'm going to be gone this weekend.
Me: Ok...so am I going to need to feed the cat?
H: Well, yeah (this is usually something he does)
Me: Ok, so from when to when?
H: From when I leave until when I get back.
Me: That doesn't really help me know what to do.
H: *exasperated* Tomorrow night until Saturday night or Sunday morning.

I'm not asking to be nosy, I genuinely need to know so I know when to be responsible for the cat. What if I was gone, too? He said he hadn't thought that far ahead. I guess it's hard to think ahead to tomorrow. Seems irresponsible and selfish to me, and I am tired of his attitude.


Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final