When W handed me D papers we talked a lot and I calmly brought up my feelings on a possible A.
She denied it but asked me how I had some info and I did not give up my sources. It is mostly gut feeling and sightings by friends.
I told I trusted her but I have some doubt in the back of my mind.
Nothing more has been said till tonight.
She came home and asked me if I spoke to OM girlfriend or wife.
I said I hadn't because I wouldn't even know what to say.
All this A talk is between W and I only honest.
She thanked me for telling the truth if it is truth and then told me the OM woman threatened my W face to face accusing her of all the same things I have.
I never accused my W just asked for my W to tell the truth and be adult about it. If there is something going on tell me.
How now do I handle this sitch? I am concerned for my W and told her so. Said if she needed me I would help.
Kinda strange that this happened Because TBH I wanted the A to be public(not by me though) if it is true and I might get my wish but now I don't what to say or do.
Please help need advice badly!!
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014