Forgiven lazy husband - reconcilliation possible?

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Sandi2
Question: So as I am changing myself with a harder work ethic, (doing something I am passionate about helps ;D )
would it be ok if after a month I just took my wife aside and gave her an envelope of money as my first "kill" for her?
(y'know going out as a hunter, providing for my family) Of course I wont word it as that but something along the lines of: "This $X is for you. Its what a provider and husband does. Use it on whatever."

or is that breaking dB rules cause its a gift...and it may drive her even more away. Thanks