I'm with you, TL. If my H wanted to come back today, after almost a year, I would not be ready either. It would be a LONG road back. We are both different people now. I am still hopeful, but a little bit of that fades every day. I have left the door ajar, and the ball is in his court, but I am am carrying on. So are you TL, very admirably. I vote for TL to become a moderator. Heh heh. Moderator-in-training. You go, girl...


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15