I was told it would only get worse, I just didn't think it would with my h. Oh no, not him. Stupid.
I think I will be detaching at an alarmingly fast rate now. I'm actually moving from hurt and disbelief to anger and disbelief. He is swatting at a hornet's nest.
I've kept it civil and polite and left him alone and I will still leave him alone but the gloves are off concerning finances and it's time to involve the lawyer and get that taken care of and make sure I have custody of our d.