I second the 12-step program. I did FA for a while and the little book helps me often.

Pia too. She helped me a ton. Maybe I should look at some of the other stuff you like!

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.