Your boundaries are based on what you are willing to tolerate. But you leave how he respects and his actions of how he honors those boundaries up to him. You don't dictate what the actions he needs to take. Let him come up with his own ideas.
Hmmm...so forgive me for being thick but based on this feedback does this mean the 'deal breakers' I stated in my first post in this thread are off and need to modified? And if yes, how specifically?
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14