Maybe this is a relationship better left in the past, and now that I'm a grownup, I need a grownup relationship, as well.
Ummmm.....yeah.....I'm thinking that's what most of us have been trying to tell you.
All this standing-for-the-MLCer business - that's for a long-standing marriage, usually with kids involved, where there's a huge investment and the kids' well-being to consider. In your case, it's the opposite - for the sake of your future unborn children, you should NOT settle for your ex.
Plus, you know - you're young, talented, capable, adventurous - get out a live a little more before you settle down. Don't be in a rush. Choose wisely.
