BD and 6 mts later PA confirmed

[Bunches]

Feeling low and weak after difficult confrontation tonight.

W admitted how far the afair went and that it had been going on since before she left. She told me the guy didn't just loose interest in her. He is still M / S to his W but that he had pursued her before she left. He dumped her though recently so his W wouldn't find out. She said that I had told her some things last year around the time my dad died that I don't remember saying that made her feel unloved. I did have a bad period of time around then and didn't handle much well but I don't remember saying those things like that. I may have said something similar but not to the effect she took it. Anyhow, its out in the open now even more so.

I don't know how to write the rest....