Things have just gotten worse. H picked up d15 today for visit, it only lasted 3 hours. She said he has his own bank account now which is where all the money went that he took out of the bank. She said he spent the whole time he was with her texting someone and complaining about d15. She said he never once asked her how she was. She said she was almost in tears in wanted to come home. She said he asked her if I was dating and if I went out and where I went and what I did. Said he was worried about my emotional stability. WHAT??? D15 is scared. She says she thinks he is trying to find a way to not pay support and possibly get custody of her so he doesn't have to pay. She said she doesn't want to see him again. Then to top that off he has the nerve to just walk in my house when he brings her home. And asks me how I am, which I didn't respond to. I continued with the laundry and he went off to the bathroom. I went to our room to hang up my laundry and when he comes out of the bathroom he asks d where I am and she say in the bedroom and guess where prince charming heads to? I guess he thought he'd get a little cake eating in. Well, wrong because I was just headed out the door and kept on going, almost ran him over. I get he doesn't want me anymore, but why the nastiness? Why the lying about funds and making it difficult on me and d? I have not done anything to him for this type of behavior. I have left him alone and not said one word about his lies or the fact that he has not kept up the financial agreement we made. Not even close. I am making it so easy for him so why is he making it so hard for me? Is that part of mlc or just how men behave when they leave?
