She stayed at a girlfriends place the night before last and my imagination was going wild that she was with OM but I think that's just my vivid imagination and my past pain getting the better of me.
Your anxious feelings are justified, and that's why you need to at least hear her say the A with OM has ended. You want to be able to trust her and not worry every time she goes somewhere. I hope the MC will point out that she has to be willing to help you trust again.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
