Ok...so while I do love the feedback I will admit it is confusing me a bit as to my next steps. So if I were to do a 180 around patience and work on not being controlling (and I agree, both very valid and appropriate goals for me) should I NOT tell him my boundaries regarding reconciliation right now (assuming he initiates a convo about the R)? Would that fly in the face of those goals?
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
