It's typical, man. Don't get too wrapped up in the ring....I think that happens to nearly all of us here. Don't worry until she comes home wearing one from someone else!
Until then, just know that the "shedding of the rings" is just part of the script. Doesn't make it feel any better.....but it is just part of it all.
Yeah... I know. And I appreciate the reminder...
The back and forth just seems so weird to me...even though I know I shouldn't be focusing on it anyway. And I guess I should feel fortunate that it's "back and forth" instead of all "back". Sometimes it's hard not to puzzle over what the WAS does though... And in light of what seems like a lot of other positive movement (in particular our Wednesday date nights), the absence of the ring at this particular time seems weird to me.
Who knows...maybe she just wants to see if I'll notice and comment on it, since historically I always have remarked when she forgets to put it on (She often takes it off at night when at home because her fingers swell)... Maybe that should be the 180 here...continue to keep my mouth shut about it instead of giving in to the urge to ask her about it.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
