Thinking about doing something is different than actually DOING it. He needs to see that too. If you want your M to survive, you have to be pro-active and not let these things fall through the cracks or else you'll be back here again because your changes weren't for real.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014
