It Hurts,

Goat Gal has the right idea with the breezy/no response conversations. That being said...

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I know she wants to talk to me but I am avoiding it whenever possible


Can you elaborate why you're avoiding it?

What was your M.O. when you were married? When you or she were angry, how did you communicate? Or did you both retreat and do the silent treatment thing?

The point of DR is to do something different and monitor results. If you're not interested in doing that, what is your goal?


"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

Albert Einstein