Statistics aside, if this is something YOU need for your own anxiety and peace of mind, I wouldn't recommend you back off on it.
Starsky
Yup, it's coming down to my own anxiety and peace of mind for sure. I'm realizing I just can't be one of those people who hangs around waiting/hoping that somehow I can lure him back with her still on the scene. Probably mainly because I know I have NO chance. He had significant issues with me, there will be no way I can "win" as long as she is buzzing around in his head. Even withouth her in the picture it's going to be tough but at least there would be *some* chance..
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
