Talked with Laurie yesterday. She thinks H wanting to hang out and talk is a good thing, and that he's making an effort. He's helping around the house, watching the baby, washing bottles...Things I was begging him to do a a few months ago. She also thinks that him opening up to me is a good thing, as he never really has before. She thinks he's making an effort in both areas. That said, the skeptic in me is still wondering about the next blow.
Last night, he went down the road to watch a coworkers band. He was texting me the entire time. He's been waking me up the past couple of mornings, as with working late I have overslept a few minutes.
He wants to hang out tonight. Tomorrow, he leaves for the weekend. I wish I were going with him, but I need to stop thinking about it. At least he told me where he was going, right?
I hate being confused. I want a crystal ball to see where this is going. He's supposed to move out in about 2 weeks, but he has the baby that weekend because I have to work. He also had mentioned he has friends coming in from Florida, but cannot go see them as he has the baby. Not sure how he can move if he was planning on going out of town, or when he has the kiddo.
For any vets out there - when are you able to trust what they say and do? He's telling me a lot of things, but I'm not sure how I can get back to the point that I believe what he's saying and doing. Even his actions - he wants to hang out with me and does, but what's his angle? What's his motive for hanging out with me if he wants a D, when he can go and hang out with his friends instead?
See, one of my other complaints was he never spent time with me...now, he is. But what if it's just to placate me until he moves out?
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Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
