Let It Go

[BklynMom]

Hey all, I have a two questions and need some feedback

1. H has not moved forward with my request (see Email posted a page back) to meet his OW, and they will soon be living together. She will be a step mother essentially to my girls and as much as I dont want to meet her I feel that I need to met the woman that is part of this co-parenting thing. All 3 of us need to fake it for the sake of the kids, maybe at one point in the distant future it will not be faking.

2. H has the girls this long weekend and is taking them on a 6+ hour car trip to his sisters in Maine. When the girls stay over his house he has been very clear that I should not pack anything. But now I feel the need to pack for this longer trip. CDs for the car (they cant go anywhere without the Frozen soundtrack), sweatshirts & bathing suits. They are my babies and I want to mother them. They are so excited about the trip and packing will help me be a part of it.

Can I ask him if we should pack anything? Also I know he is gonna want their sleeping bags, so why hasnt he emailed me to tell me that. The communication with him is so difficult.