Yes, I'd like to know when the last contact with OM was and if the A is definitely over. I'm wondering if I should pick a "safe" time when we're relaxed and in a good mood to ask this. I could just approach it as I need to know so that I can feel safe in our relationship. Is that chasing the squirrel away?


M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014