Update** I have moved out onto base, I felt staying with her was toxic. When I had moved my stuff out of the bathroom she came into my room, walked out, came back 10 minutes later and asked why my stuff was gone. I told her I was gonna move on base for a few days, she said I may as well file for separation, long pause, I said I'm considering.
She was not there last night and has seemingly gathered some belongings and moved out as well. Whatever she packed would not be enough for long as she took no dog food or treats for our puppy.
In fact early the day following our talk she had a small bag packed. She had also overturned a wedding picture of us I had turned face down the morning I left. I'm confused. But I feel better
"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith
