Hi 1Wish. Sorry to see you're here. What you're hearing from your wife is referred to as "script". Everyone here hears a different version of the same basic messages. Your wife is as confused as you are and will say a lot of contradictory things.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014