I hear what you're saying and I think there is underlying issues. Could you elaborate on what you said about deferring to your W?

I do remember now that she has increased her reliance on me to clean and now she doesn't do [censored]. And overtime her letters to me have been increasingly more hostile.

Any other things you could elaborate on as I think we have a very similar issue?


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