Don't do it! You need to detach and act as if it doesn't bother you.

There's plenty of other reasons for her to find her way home... this isn't the end, and the truth is, your WAW probably DOESN'T know what she wants. Asking her if it is will only cause her to defend her actions instead of contemplating whether they're the RIGHT actions.

-Pluto

H: 29 W: 27
No Kids

Together: 12/04 (9 years)
Living: 02/09 (5 years)
Married: 06/13 (11 months)
ILYBNILWY: 01/14
Separate Bedrooms: 01/14
Discovered Affair: 02/14 (On-going)
W Moved Out: 06/14