2nd time around part 2

[NotAgainPlease]

kay I understand what you're saying. However, this is a Man who forgets everything. He's also self employed I help with the business. And I remind him about things he needs to pick up or appointment or employment tests that he is not good at writing down. It's not like picking up his laundry the floor and that type of stuff. He very vocal about what does bother him. Before writing this if it bothered him and he said no.
If you were to ask him what bother to most about me was that I did not keep the house as clean as he wanted and I nag him about his excessive alcohol. And lastly at times my short temper. Never reminding about things.
But thanks for the input and I get where your coming from. So for me not doing this anymore and letting him fail or not is a 180 for me. And I will be doing it.
As for the list of events of topic the last few posts, I again to clarify I did not just given the days so he would call me. I did not know the time I just need the days. I will not be volunteering the time, so will see what happens.