As Pluto stated, those are vague. What ACTIONABLE steps can you take to achieve them?

What does more independent look like?
What does being a better father mean? What will you be doing differently?
What things are you controlling about? What will being less controlloing allow you to do?

H: 29
WAXW: 30

Bomb Drop- 9/9/13
Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14
D Final- 5/21/14
XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14