The way your telling it she's left but still has you for connivence. I wouldn't allow her to clog up your weekend, especially if she's not prepared to do the work to come home.
I wouldn't answer her beeping you, you know road runner beeps at the coyote as he passes and the whole cycle begins again! Your tired, let her beep and run, sit and read a good book and rest!
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26