Don't bother to pay for Match.com. I had just as good results on OKCupid, which is a free site.
As for the work issues - one better paying job would be good. Even better might be some side gig that pays well; do you have any skills or things you can make that might get you a greater return on time spent? How much do you make per hour in your current job?
(Btw, why did your escrow payment go up? Did your property taxes rise? Or your insurance? Double check their math - sometimes mortgage companies screw up the escrow accounting, that's why I don't deal with an escrow account anymore - I just pay my own taxes and insurance.)
